President and treasurer Honor Thy Children

Al & Jane Nakatani lost two of their sons to AIDS. They share their heartache, struggles and activism in honor of their sons as part of the National AIDS Memorial Surviving Voices oral history project.  

In 2018 the series was dedicated to Asians and Pacific Islanders (A&PIs). The A&PI community is unique in that it includes people from all over the globe encompassing a multitude of diverse countries and cultures such as China and India, regions such as Southeast Asia and Pacific Island Countries & Territories such as Guam.

Many different languages and even more dialects are spoken, which makes outreach and education a challenge. And yet A&PI activists and their allies not only established a network of successful A&PI focused HIV and AIDS organizations across the US, but in the process they helped in shaping and organizing groups at all levels to serve those who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people, that prior to AIDS had not existed within the A&PI community. 

Hear all the stories of API Community and AIDS at Surviving Voices

"The boys gave me a very sacred gift in life, and that's to be positive. Guy worked so hard to be positive and try to help and support other kids...And I think his reach for life is such a gift. He worried about us surviving, and I'm surviving because of him."

— Jane Nakatani


40 years of memorial, survivorship and stories of AIDS

The National AIDS Memorial brings 40 years of stories from the pandemic – the lives lost, the heroes, the survivors.  Each week we will share new stories that provide a glimpse into the many faces of AIDS from then to now.

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Our work helps ensure that the lives of people who died from AIDS are not forgotten and the story of AIDS is known by future generations -
so that never again will a community be harmed because of fear, silence, discrimination, or stigma.